Real Relationships With Paula - Help I’m a Parent!

Real Relationships With Paula – Help I’m a Parent!

The single most important predictor of how you will behave as a parent is how you were parented as a child.” – Harville Hendrix and Helen La Kelly Hunt

They say nothing is more precious than the unconditional love of a child. While we love our children, our children may not always experience us as loving. Even loving and well-meaning parents act, at times, in ways that children do not experience as loving such as when they are fighting, are stressed or going through a personal crisis to mention a few.  And as parents, we at times may experience our children in unloving ways too. Our children may seem distant, are being rebellious, in a mood or just plain uncommunicative.

So for all those parents out there, I thought I would share this poem with you and tell you that you’re human, you’re doing the best you can and you’re doing a great job!

“A Message for My Child”

I gave you life, but I cannot live it for you.
I can teach you things, but I cannot make you learn.
I can give you directions, but I cannot be there to lead you.
I can allow you freedom, but I cannot make you believe.
I can teach you right from wrong, but I cannot always decide for you.
I can buy you beautiful clothes, but I cannot make you beautiful inside.
I can offer you advice, but cannot accept it for you.
I can give you love, but I cannot force it upon you.
I can teach you to share, but I cannot make you unselfish.
I can teach you to respect, but I cannot force you to show honour.
I can advise you about friends, but cannot choose them for you.
I can tell you about drink, but cannot say NO for you.
I can warn you about drugs, but I cannot prevent you using them.
I can tell you about lofty goals, but I cannot achieve them for you.
I can teach you kindness, but I cannot force you to be gracious.
I can warn you about sins, but I cannot make your morals.
I can tell you how to live, but I cannot give you Eternal Life.

(Author: Patrick Atkinson)

If you missed getting a seat on my Building Relationships workshop because it was fully booked, I will be running another one on 25 March 2017, you can book your seat here or send me an email for more details paula@paulaquinsee.com

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